what is fairness?
suddenly tis flow across my mind. i remember 2 yrs ago when i was having my ss/his. mdm radiah told us one example. she said...
"one day, when i gave both my daughters pocket money. one is younger, one is elder. den she gave the elder one more money." den the younger said...
"mummy.. how come jie jie got much more den me? it's not fair. "
den mdm radiah told us, if she gave them both equal amount, the elder one will complain, if she gave according the their age, the younger one complain. wad is fair?
if 2 person done similar things, one got scolded, the other does not. fair? of cos the one tat was not scolded had her/his reasons. but.. anyone thot of... the one tat got scolded oso got her/his reasons? hmmmmmm.........
sometimes... things got complicated becos of 'outsiders'. fair to the victims? okok. i shall not repeat tis 'fair' word again.
yes. i m a person who do not practise wad i preach. i told people i will put it behind me. i m trying hard. REALLY. sometimes i just cant control myself but dwell in the matter again and again. in the last cindesheep, i told the sistas. only those chi bao fan, mei shi zhuo de ppl will worry. worry is just an 'extra' tink. worrying doesnt help in solving problems. i strongly agree. but wad i had been doing? i told ppl not to do tis not to do tat, but i did all those. wad can i do now? yupx... through praying.... like wad P.U.S.H means.. Pray Until Something Happens. and F.A.I.T.H Forsaken Him, I Trust Him.............
